michigan wedding |

michigan wedding |

celebrating eight plus years with friend from even longer

october 9th, 2025
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october 12th, 2025

sam & arment’s wedding
circa october 2021

brooklyn, michigan

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brooklyn, michigan *

Our goal is to create a wedding experience that maximizes quality time with everyone invited. In order to do so, we are planning four different smaller weddings for each of the places that we have lived in. Chicago, DC, Michigan & New York. To set some expectations here:

Wedding Size

We'll be limiting the size to about ~20 people in total per event. Each event will hopefully more closely resemble a weekend trip with friends rather than a standard wedding weekend. 

Venue

The venue will likely be in Brooklyn, Michigan, pending RSVPs. We rented out a large Airbnb where we will all stay at, host a small ceremony, and have a weekend full of group activities. Each of the venues we're trying to ensure bedrooms for all, but some might be shared bedrooms.

Food & Drink

Given the size, we'll be hanging out at the house so we may bring in catering for specific meals or just do some group cooking.

Cost

We're treating this more like a weekend trip with friends. We'll be subsidizing the cost, but would like to split the cost of housing & food while we cover the cost of drinking & miscellaneous costs. We think this would cost similar to what booking a hotel & food would cost anyways.

Activities

More details below, but be prepared to play competitive games. It may be some form of jeopardy, pickleball, drinking games, etc.

No Gifts

Because we're asking people to contribute to the cost of the event we are explicitly stating no gifts. The only gift we ask for is participation in activities. The reason we are trying smaller weddings is so people do not clique off. The best gift we can have is everyone socializing & having fun.

tromb & meech’s wedding
circa october 2022

tom & anna’s wedding
circa december 2021

thursday
october 9th

Feel free to arrive at the venue any time after 4 pm.

phoevin & brian will be there setting things up for the weekend. we’ll be picking up groceries & alcohol on the way there.

nothing formal planned for the night besides
welcome drinks & catching up!

dom & ellen’s wedding
circa august 2022

friday
october 10th

starting the day off with a large group breakfast. groceries for the weekend will include plenty of eggs, sausage, etc.

friday is going to be more of relaxed day as we know arrival times will be staggered. we’ll be grilling out, playing some games and enjoying the indoor pool.

at night we’ll have a “rehearsal dinner

chris & megan’s wedding
circa october 2018

saturday
october 11th

wake up. its game day. another large group breakfast. who is doing the dishes?

today is truly game day as it will be filled with organized games & competitions as part of our field day olympics.

after we get all sweaty from competition, it is time to get ready.

a small & relaxed wedding ceremony
followed by a less relaxed reception.

gio & ash’s wedding
circa september 2024

sunday
october 12th

time to leave. we need to depart by 11 am. the earliest phoevin & brian have ever woken up on a sunday.